A college senior crushing on a const worker?

I am a senior in college, and I have had a mega crush on this construction worker at my school. We kind of flirted. We exchanged eye contact a lot, started saying hi, and finally we talked. It's weird, because I am 21 and I am guessing he's like 25, and the whole flirting was totally like junior high (lots of giggling of friends involved). Well, the thing is, in me and my friends' opinion, the flirting was at its peak, but one day he disappeared. Right before he left though, I was on the other side of the building studying, and he and his friend kept looking at my direction discussing something fervently. I am thinking maybe he was debating whether he should say good bye maybe b/c he was being moved to another site? He's been gone for 2 weeks ever since, but his friend is still here. Long union vacation? Army reserve? I feel like he won't come back... Is it super creepy if I give his friend my number? I have never talked to his friend, but he sorta smiled a lot when I ran into my crush

A college senior crushing on a const worker?
I am a Project Manager/Engineer for a construction company, we recently had a project going at a large college. I had a particular field guy who was continuously batting eyes at all of the girls. I had to fire him. He had been getting little to no work done and the owners rep (college dean) had complained about him.


Chances are that if you noticed him looking and his co workers noticed, the owners rep (ie college dean) noticed as well and complained which may mean your romeo is unemployed (as was the fate of the young man formerly in my employ) right now. Do you WANT to date an unemployed 20 something? Didn't think so. Forget about the guy, he is long gone and has other things on his mind by now.
Reply:I would go ask casaually what happened to the other guy. But under no circumsances should you give out personal information that could lead to where you live.
Reply:maybe hes just a tough dude. or maybe he has a gf. or maybe he flirts with many girls at all different places coz the nature of his job. i would say get over him.
Reply:Yes. It sounds like is is shy but pretty into you.